legit

So is the idea of waiting to call a girl because you don't want her to think you're a stalker, even though you really want to hang out with her, legit. I feel like on one hand, you should just call because you are friends and it's perfectly legit to call a friend to hang out. But when does it turn from casual calling to calling all the time and wanting to hang out all the time and not giving someone their space. Then again, the threat of calling too much would result in the girl thinking that you like her, which although daunting because of the fear of rejection, is exactly what you're trying to get across. So either way you should call her, and if it's obvious that you like her because of it and she purposefully says she "can't" hang out, then you know when to stop. But if you call her and she does want to hang out, then you're one step farther then you were before you called.

So no, it is not legit. It is cowardice and emotional immaturity.

I know this has nothing to do with politics, but nobody reads this anyway... hence making this commentary also unnecessary...